Frequently Asked Questions

The First Dance is Canada’s leading wedding dance company and your one-stop shop for First Dances, Parent Dances, and Bridal Party routines. We teach in person and online in Toronto, Ottawa, Windsor, Montreal, and Calgary. There are no cookie-cutter routines. Every dance is built from the ground up to fit your song, your style, and your comfort level. We make sure you feel confident, relaxed, and proud of what you’ve created together.

Yes! In addition to lessons, we offer professional music editing, curated wedding song lists, digital products like practice guides, and online choreography videos.

We provide in-person lessons in Toronto, Ottawa, Windsor, Montreal, and Calgary. Online lessons are available throughout Canada and internationally.

Absolutely. Most of our clients are complete beginners. We specialize in teaching couples with no prior experience and making the process relaxed, fun, and empowering.

Yes. Our team has taught hundreds of couples and includes certified ballroom instructors, trained performers, and experienced choreographers. They are skilled in technique, musicality, and making each lesson approachable and effective.

You’re welcome to request someone! Otherwise, we match you based on your goals, song, and availability.

Yes. Every routine is built from scratch to reflect your music, personality, and comfort level.

Most do, depending on city and schedule. We have dedicated instructors for both formats.

They specialize in weddings but have experience in Latin, ballroom, contemporary, hip hop, and more.

Yes! Many of our 5-star reviews mention instructors by name. Click here to see testimonials and more.

Yes. All consultations are held directly with your matched instructor. Click here to book your free consultation.

Pricing depends on group size:

• Small Groups (4–5 people): $35 + tax per person, per lesson
  Large Groups (6+ people): $30 + tax per person, per lesson

Online lessons are priced the same as our in-person sessions, so you can choose what works best for you:

• Pay-As-You-Go Lesson (45 min): $120 + tax
• Silver Package (6 lessons): $625 + tax (Save $95)
• Gold Package (10 lessons): $999 + tax (Most Popular, Save $201)
• Platinum Package (20 lessons): $1,955 + tax (Best Value, Save $445)

Yes! If you’d rather learn on your own time, we can create a custom choreography video tailored to your song and vision. Learn more here about online lessons. 

Most couples choose the Silver (6 lessons) or Gold (10 lessons) package. Silver is great for simple, elegant routines. Gold is perfect for couples who want more time to rehearse, add flair, or feel ultra-confident — not just for the First Dance, but for dancing comfortably all night long.

Silver (6 lessons) is a great choice for creating a polished, meaningful routine that feels special without being overwhelming. Gold (10 lessons) is perfect if you want more time to make it really memorable, whether that means adding creative touches, building confidence, or enjoying the experience together.

At the moment, no fixed packages for group/bridal party dances. Each session is booked individually and tailored to your group’s schedule and complexity.

Yes. We offer three professional editing options:

• Basic Edit: $40 + tax (trimming and fading)

• Standard Edit: $60 + tax (tempo changes, mashups, transitions)

• Premium Edit: $75 + tax (includes three or more songs with full customization. Great for a creative mix or a more dynamic soundtrack)
  All edits are handled in-house with a 24 to 48-hour turnaround.

Yes! Digital gift cards can be used for lessons, editing, or any product in our store. Great for engagements, weddings, and anniversaries.

Yes! Our popular items include:

• Date Night Practice Guide

• Wedding Song List

• Ultimate Wedding Dance Bundle (with discounts)

Absolutely. You can either send the file or buy a gift card and let them choose.

Yes. All lessons are valid for 18 months from the purchase date.

We don’t offer refunds, but unused credits can be applied toward future lessons, other services (like music editing), or even transferred to someone else.

No. All digital product sales are final.

Yes. Just let us know your schedule and we’ll do our best to accommodate it.

Ideally 3 to 6 months before your wedding. That gives you time to learn at a comfortable pace, build confidence, and enjoy the process. We can also work with shorter timelines if needed.

Yes. Book a single pay-as-you-go lesson. If you continue, you can apply that payment to a package.

No. All consultations are virtual and free, so you can meet your instructor and discuss your goals from anywhere.

Toronto, Ottawa, Windsor, Montreal, and Calgary. Virtual lessons are available Canada-wide and internationally.

Yes. In select cities, we can come to your home or wedding venue (if permitted) as an add-on service.

Yes. Your progress and lesson credits carry over seamlessly.

Yes. In Montreal, we offer instruction in both English and French.

Yes. We customize choreography and lesson plans to suit your needs. Everyone deserves to feel great on the dance floor.

Often within a week! For last-minute bookings, reach out early to secure your spot.

We respond within 24 hours. Your assigned instructor will also reach out directly.

Feel free to reach out by contact form, email at alex@www.thefirstdance.ca, or text us at 519-980-8091. We’re quick to reply and happy to help however we can.

Each private or group lesson is 45 minutes. You can also book back-to-back sessions for a full 90-minute experience.

Wear something comfortable that you can move in, like leggings, athletic wear, or stretchy pants. For shoes, smooth soles work best such as leather or ballroom shoes. Avoid sneakers or anything with rubber soles. It’s also a good idea to practice at least once in your wedding or event shoes.

Anything you want – waltz, rumba, foxtrot, salsa, swing, freestyle, or even hip hop. We tailor it to your vibe and music.

2 to 2.5 minutes is ideal. We can edit your song to the perfect length.

Absolutely – if it’s safe and comfortable for both of you, we’ll help you incorporate these moves with confidence.

Yes, we offer professional mashup editing as an add-on.

 It’s completely up to you. Some go for something light and heartfelt, others prefer a fun and upbeat vibe. We’ll tailor the style to match your relationship and the energy you want to bring to the moment.

We recommend 1.5 to 2 minutes. We can trim your song if needed.

Yes. Online lessons make it easy to connect and learn together from anywhere.

We choreograph bridal party entrances, flash mobs, surprise reception dances, TikTok routines, sibling tributes, and more. Whether you’re into pop hits, country, salsa, disco, or something totally unexpected, we’ll tailor the routine to fit your vision and group.

Most groups take 5 to 10 lessons depending on complexity and size.

No problem at all. We can help you choose a song that fits your style, energy, and vision. If you want more ideas, you can also check out our curated Wedding Song List.

Lessons take place live on Zoom with your instructor, and you’ll get a private link for each session. If live sessions don’t fit your schedule, we also offer custom video choreography. Your instructor will design your dance and send a personalized video so you can learn on your own time, at your own pace.

Yes. First Dances, Parent Dances, and Group routines can all be taught online.

Yes. We can create a custom instructional video tailored to your music, style, and timeline.