Some things to know
GETTING STARTED
At The First Dance, we try to keep our process as simple as possible. Avoiding confusion and knowing the details are essential to having an enjoyable learning experience with us, all the while achieving the goals you’ve set out for yourself. So here’s how our classes work, and what you need to know to get started:
Step 1
Know the details
Figure out some details that we need to get started. There’s a few questions you should try to figure out the answer to, this will help us tailor your lessons to you. For example:
-What’s your special song? Do you like the tempo/feel? (Pick a song you relate to, if you are caught between songs, we are more than happy to help you choose during our free consultation.)
-What “look”, style, or image are you going for? (Sentimental and slow? Energetic and Fast? Is this a couples dance or a group dance? Think of the goal you have for this dance)
-What is your time frame? (We suggest leaving yourselves a 3-6 month window before your wedding to get familiar with the dance at a comfortable pace)
-In person or online? ( Decide if you’d prefer your private lessons at our in person locations or through an online platform like zoom)
-What will be the dance floor size? Any obstacles?(tables, podiums etc). (This one is important so that we can mimic the floor size in our lessons, so there’s no worry of anything getting in your way.)
-Unsure? Not to worry. We are here to help, all of this can be addressed during your free consultation.
Step 2
Book Your Consultation
Book your free consultation with us. This 20 minute consultation gives us a chance get to know each-other a little bit. We can go over details and set up a goal for your lessons. Your instructor will also evaluate your current abilities to help plan out a timeline for your lessons. We may even practice a few steps.
Once we complete the consultation, should you decide to continue your lessons, you can then choose which lesson package you would like to go with, more info on this can be found on our individual lesson pages:
• Parents
From there, we find a good lesson schedule for you. We work at your pace, and we do not want to overwhelm you, dancing should (above all) be fun.
We advise our clients to book your consultation well in advance of your wedding, so that we can accommodate your learning style and schedule.
Step 3
Begin Your Lessons
Finally, we know the details, we know your goals, and you’ve chosen your lesson package. We can now begin our lesson plan. Together, we can make your special dance as simple or as elaborate as you like.
Our instructors are very experienced, but pride themselves on embracing a laid back, enjoyable learning style. We craft a unique experience for every client we teach. Not only will you feel yourself becoming more confident in your dancing, you will absolutely enjoy yourself.
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Frequently Asked Questions
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Wear something comfortable that allows you to move easily — athletic wear, leggings, or relaxed-fit clothing are great choices. Closer to the wedding, we recommend bringing or practicing in your wedding shoes and something similar to your outfit to get used to the feel. Read our full guide
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Smooth-soled shoes are ideal — think leather dress shoes, ballroom practice shoes, or clean flats. Avoid rubber soles, sneakers, or anything that sticks to the floor. Practicing at least once in your event shoes is also highly recommended.
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Each lesson is 45 minutes long. You can also book two sessions back-to-back for a full 90-minute experience, perfect for extended learning or rehearsals.
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Not at all! Most of our clients are complete beginners. We specialize in teaching first-timers and making the process fun, relaxed, and confidence-boosting from day one.
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We recommend starting 3 to 6 months before your wedding. This gives you time to learn at a comfortable pace, build confidence, and enjoy the experience without stress. That said, we also accommodate last-minute couples with rush options.
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Yes — all packages and lessons are valid for 2 years from the date of purchase. We’re flexible with scheduling, but unused sessions expire after that time.
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Absolutely! We love helping couples choose the perfect song. Your instructor can suggest options based on your style and vibe. You can also check out our regularly updated Wedding Song & Dance List — a curated digital guide with our top recommendations. Browse the Wedding Song List
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Yes — we offer fully personalized online lessons for couples, parent dances, and group routines. Great for long-distance or busy schedules. Explore online lessons
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Nope! All consultations are done virtually and are completely free. It’s your chance to meet your instructor, ask questions, and go over your goals. Book your consultation
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We customize every routine to your song and preferences. Depending on the vibe, we may include elements of waltz, foxtrot, rumba, swing, salsa, bachata, or smooth freestyle movement. No prior knowledge required.
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Not at all. Some couples love a fully choreographed routine, while others prefer light structure with more freedom. We’ll design something that feels comfortable and authentic to you.
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Yes — absolutely. We’re experienced in adapting choreography and lesson structure to meet a wide variety of needs. Everyone deserves to feel confident and celebrated on the dance floor.
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Yes — in select cities, we offer in-home or on-location lessons, including wedding venue rehearsals. This is available as an add-on service depending on your location and schedule.
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Yes! We provide professional music editing, including trimming, tempo changes, and mashups. Edits are handled by our in-house audio team and typically completed within 24–48 hours.
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We offer flexible scheduling, including evenings and weekends. Your instructor will work with you to build a lesson plan that fits your availability and timeline.
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We currently offer in-person lessons in Toronto, Ottawa, Windsor, Montreal, and Calgary, with online lessons available across Canada and internationally.
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We don’t offer refunds for unused lessons, but you can apply your remaining credits toward future lessons, another service (like a parent or group dance), or transfer to someone else. View our refund policy